We had an IEP meeting yesterday morning. I was prepared but nervous. They were non compliant on a few key parts and I was going to address them. My big girl pants were on. When the principal brought up her "behavior plan," I was prepared to say, "Thank you for your time," and walk out. I was going to be SO polite about it too!
They played right into my hands. Only his regular teacher brought a notebook, the principal had some post-its, and I had a folder full of every previous IEP, a few friends' IEP's, notes from an advocate, and a momma's sense of justice. They said since I called for a meeting, why didn't I start things?
PERFECT! From page 1, I was going. Not one place on the IEP addressed his Autism and the only person who could take care of that on the IEP was missing from the IEP meeting! Interesting, because they knew why I had called for the meeting.
Communication needs: They had said no, he has none. The advocate told me when I met him, that yes, in fact, he does and this is where we put it, on page four under "Communication Needs." My boy can articulate and use words I have to look up, but he does not understand body language and sarcasm and other nuances of language that become more and more prevalent as one gets older. We received some resistance here. The principal said that "communication needs" meant "assisted technology." I told them that the advocate disagreed, so the principal left the meeting to make a phone call and when she returned she had more post-it notes and said that while they would not address it on page 4, we could put it on page 7. As long as it addresses everything that it would have on page 4, I was okay with that.
I had just gotten started. I was beginning to enjoy this now that I understood what I could ask for. We came to the crux of our complaints. On every individual class, they had typed "Social Skill Instruction" requiring 90% mastery and this would be accomplished through "Teacher Observations." There were no goals listed, no measurable criteria. All it said was he "will use time appropriately" and other equally vague statements. We asked how the observations were measured. We were told when the teacher notices, she corrects the action. That is not measurable nor is it appropriate. That means there is no positive reinforcement, only correction when he does something "wrong." So, we had them break down the goals to be more specific, measurable, and positive.
Blank stares came from across the table.
No one knew how to do that. The computer program was "Easy IEP." What I was asking for would not be easy. How would they do what I was asking? Uneasy glances crossed the table. Not me, I was patiently waiting for an answer. Finally, one of the teachers remembered there was a "customize" button on the program. Apparently, they were going to have to customize, that is tailor, the Individualized Educational Program to my son's needs. Huh? Crazy!?!
Not such an "Easy IEP" now, was it? They were actually going to have to type in words instead of just opening the drop-down box. It was a lot to ask, I am sure. But my son has been bullied and suspended for the behaviors they don't like, so they are going to have to account for things a little bit more. Well, a lot more.
So an hour and a half later, the principal had a table full of post-it notes, the special ed teacher looked challenged, the guidance counselor looked like she would rather be somewhere else, and we never did get to the principal's behavior plan. I had been looking forward to that part! In conclusion, we had to schedule another meeting because they weren't ready with the staff or knowledge to put a proper IEP in place. I am curious to see what happens the next time they get a student like mine, and it WILL happen. Autism diagnoses are on the rise. I hope they prepare. The next momma may not play so nice. Of course, I'm not done yet....
I bet the school can't wait to get rid of me! Alas, I have a kindergartner and a third-grader still there....
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